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The friend is not that the glass is made
The friend is not certainly that glass is made, but a lot of people always regard the friend as the glass, meticulously, I’m afraid that has touched the friend evil.

So sometimes, very discontented with the friend obviously, but does not dare to express either. Fear that once complains, will conflict; Once conflict, will injure the emotion; Once injure the emotion, will lose this friend, lose a friend for a minor matter, is not too worth, then stand the friend’s offense, then, it is angry in the stomach stealthily.

The girl in a university says, her good friend is specially unreasonable, this friend has been in the university for four years, have almost never fetched water, has all let her hit for her; And the friend among public, tell her secret words it that comes out frequently also; She hopes very much this friend can realize one day that should not do it in this way. But this careless friend has not sign changed at all.

“Are these behavioral how you treat her? ”

“How am I? I pretend not to care. ”

“Then how does she know you are unhappy? ”

“Should she know? ”

“Do you think she has an exceptional function? Do you know what you are thinking? Since you make the appearance that does not care, she acts as and thinks you did not cared; Since she did not think you cared, certainly she would not make a change. ”

“I know I should express one’s own mood, however, I fear she is angry, fear to influence our friendship. Though she has some places not good. It is not worth losing a friend for these things. So I recognize. ”

There is such an idea, because they all have a kind of very beautiful expectation to the friendship: Hope the friend had better not quarrel forever, does not have anger, understand each other forever. In their mind, once mean the friendship evaporates if the conflict appears. Therefore, they have to avoid the conflict, the result makes between oneself and the other side instead all unhappy.

In fact, not conflicting, the friendship have to end up on a road. Because we have “  Conciliate ” Skill available. The friendship is a picture that both sides described together, what’s happened will draw, conciliate seem in our hand as skin or scraper, draw one mean the picture take, become invalid by mistake. There are rubber and scraper, your picture can continue going down in picture.

It is the same why some people regard the friend as the glass, does not dare to touch, the most important reason, they will not use rubber and scraper, even they never realize that there is this kind of thing of rubber scraper that exists. He friendship just like the glass, once broken, can only abandon. So they have to be meticulous, in this course, oneself is constrained, how could feel happy?

So, conciliation is a skill of necessary study while making friends. If you understand how to conciliate, in associating, you have greater freedom. You will dare to express one’s own opinion on the friend, dare to insist on oneself, dare to take the danger of producing the conflict. Because as you know, even if the friendship is injured for the moment, you can dispel this consequence, let the friendship be resumed until the past. speech

Conciliation is very simple, it is a word which you said voluntarily after refusing to budge, it was you that gave a yellow rose to him by mistake, it was a friendly smile, was a small present … So long as you really have friendship to exist, it finishes in this way to conciliate.

The person that will not conciliate, fear to express the opinion on the friend, the result connives at the friend’s shortcoming, the friendship that keeps like this is insecure, can’t keep going down one day in the future. It is the person not afraid of the conflict exactly, express being discontented in time, it is disharmonious while solving the friends through exchanging, just have really permanent friendship.

After all, the friend is not that the glass is made, if a friend really thinks the same glass, forbidding you to touch it, such a friend broke and broke.

Friendship and distance between the friends
Friend, need to manage diligently, need to have certain artistry. Not because is saying that teaches, but there is personal experience. To a friend, and no matter the friends of men and women, can’t too pay attention to overly, otherwise the other side will think the pressure very large, the ones that will be pressed by your attention are breathless, but can’t overly neglect, overly neglect, would not be having a connection. Some friends, if you pay attention to him very much, the ones that will let him feel hand over to your friend to be very tired, even if because you pay attention to he very much, let him feel pressure, can let whom oneself pass very hard too. No matter between the friends, or between the lover, to the emotion of the other side, must be unable to be reciprocal. Always pay more parties, and it is easy to be injured to often pay a lot of party. So, will all inform that give up oneself while getting along with the friend frequently now, it will will let oneself and friend not injured in this way to control one’s own devotion. So I will not impose others now, it takes the pressure of bringing to others to try not.

Not all people can become the friend in life. Everybody has one’s own philosophy of life, way of conduction in society, the taste and personality characteristic, choose the friend to have one’s own standards and conditions too. The principle that I make friends is the communication of pursuing soul. I often think, people’s life is in the world, due to the friendship, can’t leave, can not leave, can’t leave. When the friend meets difficulty, suffers setbacks, if extend a helping hand, help the other side to see through the difficulty, overcome the difficulty, the more useful than to give the famous and precious gift one is many, much firmer too. It is a friend, mean undertaking removing difficulties and alleviating sufferings, happiness and obligation altogether each other. Only this, friendship could often exist lastingly.

The friend’s injury of getting along is often not be in the mood for, but help is wholehearted, forget the injury that those are not be in the mood for; Bearing those firmly in mind will help you wholeheartedly, you will find this is in the world you have many wholehearted friends   In daily life, the most best friend rubs too, perhaps we will separate because of rubing in these. But whenever in the still of the night, we look at it to the starry sky, always see the bright memory in the past. Some trifling memory brings limitless shock to my lonely soul! It is this feeling, make me understand friend’s importance to me even more! Network the same too, nearly complicatedness that relation can very much, too far, lose the connection, it was just just good to be non- near and non- far, can only experience mutual sincerity and friendly feelings. Everyone has a one’s own land of happiness, friend, in your depressed time, when your disheartened and disappointed time, as the good friend has been indifferent gradually that you felt, please treasure friend’s sincere friendship, no matter in friendship or actual life of the network, the friendship, like water like the air, the ones that keenlies feel it until while losing are valuable.

I want to have a lot of wholehearted friends forever, but I know very well this is impossible. Get dispersedly together, should let nature take its course, needn’t be reluctant. Belong to my friend, will be coming up to me, friend not belonging to I, can not stay, by but the other time, not sad, let alone it is too persistent to care very much, swallow the ruined side of sad and dreary dust in life alone for the time being, and then show beautiful and majestic quality to others, go, it experiences to be in life with life. Because it is not for the agony that people live, know each other happily and attentively in life.

Each hide very dark loneliness and wish eagerly too under being indifferent. Everybody has agony that oneself struggles and mind experience, just because understands oneself and understands each other in tacit understanding, it is the smile not still vanished at the time of physical and psychological weariness to be only harmonious. Keeping thinking about each other, care each other, with love each other being rare emotion conciliate most in this world, it is the true feelings most difficult to forget between the friends. Can coexist for a long time between the good friends, just because there are interdependence and tacit understanding among this kind of soul, only this lonely life did not become abundant and deep. There can be a good friend, a best friend, the emotion demand for having all one’s life, good friend such as basic necessities of life such as life such as shade already since, when the loneliness, separated by thousand lies of ten thousand li the most most, good friend will come at the appointed time, even if quietly relative at that time, speak a word, it experiences to be rain and dew calm like mirror, many mental state moist too.

Treasure every friendship at one’s side, no matter whether it has already gone over, no matter it will have future. Perhaps can not be as long as the heaven and earth endure, perhaps will fade from memory, perhaps will drift apart, but should not forget at all times. It is a seed, treasure, will sprout in your heart, smoke the leaf, bloom, until the result. And that kind of fragrance while bursting forth will accompany you to move ahead whole lifespeech

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