Friendship and distance between the friends
Friend, need to manage diligently, need to have certain artistry. Not because is saying that teaches, but there is personal experience. To a friend, and no matter the friends of men and women, can’t too pay attention to overly, otherwise the other side will think the pressure very large, the ones that will be pressed by your attention are breathless, but can’t overly neglect, overly neglect, would not be having a connection. Some friends, if you pay attention to him very much, the ones that will let him feel hand over to your friend to be very tired, even if because you pay attention to he very much, let him feel pressure, can let whom oneself pass very hard too. No matter between the friends, or between the lover, to the emotion of the other side, must be unable to be reciprocal. Always pay more parties, and it is easy to be injured to often pay a lot of party. So, will all inform that give up oneself while getting along with the friend frequently now, it will will let oneself and friend not injured in this way to control one’s own devotion. So I will not impose others now, it takes the pressure of bringing to others to try not.
Not all people can become the friend in life. Everybody has one’s own philosophy of life, way of conduction in society, the taste and personality characteristic, choose the friend to have one’s own standards and conditions too. The principle that I make friends is the communication of pursuing soul. I often think, people’s life is in the world, due to the friendship, can’t leave, can not leave, can’t leave. When the friend meets difficulty, suffers setbacks, if extend a helping hand, help the other side to see through the difficulty, overcome the difficulty, the more useful than to give the famous and precious gift one is many, much firmer too. It is a friend, mean undertaking removing difficulties and alleviating sufferings, happiness and obligation altogether each other. Only this, friendship could often exist lastingly.
The friend’s injury of getting along is often not be in the mood for, but help is wholehearted, forget the injury that those are not be in the mood for; Bearing those firmly in mind will help you wholeheartedly, you will find this is in the world you have many wholehearted friends In daily life, the most best friend rubs too, perhaps we will separate because of rubing in these. But whenever in the still of the night, we look at it to the starry sky, always see the bright memory in the past. Some trifling memory brings limitless shock to my lonely soul! It is this feeling, make me understand friend’s importance to me even more! Network the same too, nearly complicatedness that relation can very much, too far, lose the connection, it was just just good to be non- near and non- far, can only experience mutual sincerity and friendly feelings. Everyone has a one’s own land of happiness, friend, in your depressed time, when your disheartened and disappointed time, as the good friend has been indifferent gradually that you felt, please treasure friend’s sincere friendship, no matter in friendship or actual life of the network, the friendship, like water like the air, the ones that keenlies feel it until while losing are valuable.
I want to have a lot of wholehearted friends forever, but I know very well this is impossible. Get dispersedly together, should let nature take its course, needn’t be reluctant. Belong to my friend, will be coming up to me, friend not belonging to I, can not stay, by but the other time, not sad, let alone it is too persistent to care very much, swallow the ruined side of sad and dreary dust in life alone for the time being, and then show beautiful and majestic quality to others, go, it experiences to be in life with life. Because it is not for the agony that people live, know each other happily and attentively in life.
Each hide very dark loneliness and wish eagerly too under being indifferent. Everybody has agony that oneself struggles and mind experience, just because understands oneself and understands each other in tacit understanding, it is the smile not still vanished at the time of physical and psychological weariness to be only harmonious. Keeping thinking about each other, care each other, with love each other being rare emotion conciliate most in this world, it is the true feelings most difficult to forget between the friends. Can coexist for a long time between the good friends, just because there are interdependence and tacit understanding among this kind of soul, only this lonely life did not become abundant and deep. There can be a good friend, a best friend, the emotion demand for having all one’s life, good friend such as basic necessities of life such as life such as shade already since, when the loneliness, separated by thousand lies of ten thousand li the most most, good friend will come at the appointed time, even if quietly relative at that time, speak a word, it experiences to be rain and dew calm like mirror, many mental state moist too.
Treasure every friendship at one’s side, no matter whether it has already gone over, no matter it will have future. Perhaps can not be as long as the heaven and earth endure, perhaps will fade from memory, perhaps will drift apart, but should not forget at all times. It is a seed, treasure, will sprout in your heart, smoke the leaf, bloom, until the result. And that kind of fragrance while bursting forth will accompany you to move ahead whole lifespeech